Not Alone

still hurry up and wait ... I wonder if we would feel the same way if we were actually "infertile" I mean I guess we have a case of Male infertility ...Obviously, but were not infertile.

We made new friends this past weekend New Gay Friends some with children who have already gone though this process and some still trying. We met a younger couple that is trying to conceive and it sadly comforting knowing that things were not easier for them because they were younger. It was very comforting knowing we are not alone in this process. It's comforting to know there are people that we now actually know .. er met that have tried more more than us and some who have tried less and some success and some unsuccessful. The bottom line is that we are all gay and going through the process-and we already know what a crazy process it is.

Camaraderie is a wonderful thing and though each of us had a different route in this process and there are never guarantees we love knowing that we are able to speak to real live people who live it or lived though it who are also willing to share. YAY for new friend!

We are still waiting for the follicles to get a little bit bigger but all of M's hormone levels are great and her lining looks good too. She did a session of acupuncture and said that was great she came home and literally looked stoned she was so relaxed and stressless. Her eyes were lil dopey and half open- who knew having tiny needles in you could make you feel that good but my wife like hooky mookey medicine teh chiropracter, massage, touch healing all that.

We are still working on it....but not alone and very thankful to be able to go through this process and meet amazing people!