CHRIST mas!

Last year I had an incident with my wife's family. I posted something ambiguous on face book with out any names. It was something in relation to my status being about selfish people, something to the tone of I dislike selfish people.

I was asked via facebook by my BIL what I meant by that. I proceeded to answer HIS question on facebook and tell him how I felt about him saying that I believed he was selfish. He and his wife changes a bunch of plans for Christmas causing my wife and my MIL to be upset. Both were mopey and no one was willing to say how it was. I am a say how it is kinda person, I think you can tell this by now from my blog. Anyhow seeing my wife upset kills me es specially this time in particular we had a tough year me in particular. I was laid off and we needed to move to another state to save money and we lost our cat and grandfather.

Apparently my SIL who I was very close friends with and was privy to information that most were not regarding my wife's family she did not have the best relationship with our inlaws. But she took it upon herself to copy my facebook post to her husband and call my MIL up and tell her what I said . Again what I said was my perspective and she misconstrued that information in translation. I was squared with my BIL he said he appreciated my hoest and was glad we could talk.

Anyhow after mt SIL ran her crazy mouth off to my MIL my MIL send me a HELLACIOUS email letter saying how I am no longer part of the family and Blah blah blah .. This really took me by surprise and hurt me. Hurt me so much because like a fool I put my wife's family before my own thinking they were better and kinder. I know Lesson LEARNED. After several months my MIF finally kinda apologized but i have never felt comfortable again like I did. She really hurt my feelings and said vicious and very mean and hurtful things.

Anyhow, Christmas last year was horrible and this years is not looking so hot either. I will be making the best of it. There will be drinks to be had and I will have many and there will be presents galore for my wife and then after the grin and bear I will spend time with people who are dear to me.

I hope all of you have a wonderful Holiday. Oh and should I need you I will reach out for TEXT support!

WISH ME LUCK . and just in case I have Valium!